Meet Jason, The Bachelor. Who I figure will remain a bachelor for some time to come. I hope he remains a bachelor for the remainder of his days. Yes, I am that harsh.
Now meet Melissa. The Bachelorette who became engaged on the final episode. Who also became a dumpee in the Final After Rose show. Meet Melissa the one who stole Jason's heart, the one who should now be stomping on it. Meet Molly. The one who was dumped at the Final Rose Ceremony. Meet Molly, the one Jason can't quit thinking about. Meet Molly, the one Jason then turned around and dumped Melissa for. Meet Molly, the one Jason "cant' get enough of her eyes, he gets lost in them". Anyone notice that he told BOTH of them this at the very end. He looked BOTH of them in these eyes at the final decision making and said the same damn thing.
I'm talking about last nights final episode of "The Bachelor". I was shocked to see how it ended last night. Shocked and angry actually. Angry, not because of how it ended, or who he chose, but in the fact that he dumped her with no warning on national TV. Oh I know what your thinking, she knew this when she signed up. Well OK she might have and did, but the fact remains she knew this could happen if she was not chosen at the end, to which I am sure she had prepared for. But for it to happen after getting her engagement ring and dating then for 6 weeks or more for it to happen is a whole different ballgame in my book. Did she expect this? From the look on her face I would have to say "hell no" she didn't expect it. In my heart Jason lost all respect I had for him at that moment. He could have warned her before hand and discussed it with her, heck even over the phone would have been better than that. I just wonder if she can sue him or ABC for damages? Hmmmm makes you wonder?
I wanted Melissa to win from almost the beginning of the show. She was my second favorite of them all. I also understand and can only imagine that when the show ends, taping stops and you get back to the real world it's all completely different I am sure. No more extremely fancy dates in exotic places, no more helicopter rides, and the whole shebang. This I'm sure makes you engagement more of a reality check than anything they have experienced thus far. To return to the "real world" after dating this way is tough. This is when you really learn about the person you've committed to spend the rest of your life with. So I am quite sure things changed.
I do give credit to Jason for not stringing her along any further. It's just the way the "dumper" took care of business that really bothers me. Was he paid extra for doing it this way? He could have even lied to her to make it better. But NO, he came right out and said "I can't get Molly out of my mind and I want her". Give me a break here. Not only dump her but rub it in her face that he believes he loves someone else. Jesus I don't think the man knows what or whom he loves.
OK, I've said it before and I'll say it again. I am not watching anymore episodes after this season. I will watch the "Final, Final After Rose" which airs tonight again on ABC at 9:00 pm CST. Then I'm done once and for all.
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